I am going to let our readers in on a secret today. The secret to a happy married life. It is very simple. First a little poetry,
Hum say badlo na tum, Tum say bandlein na hum
Roz Chahay Zamana Badalta Rahay
Translation:
I don't change on you and you don't change on me even if the world keeps changing everyday...
And that is it...
Its about loyalty and faith on your partner. The world will keep on changing as time never stops for anybody and with each new day and each new month and each new year, the world is changing. If the partners can manage to keep it the same when it comes to the relationship even though the world and the people around them keep changing, they have got it.
There you have it folks, the simple 'Secret'.
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Wise words, those!
:)
The trouble is that people appear to have become materialistic enough to evaluate relationships in terms of return on investment (ROI), just like they would do in the case of business ventures.
how very sweet!
good to see u back at the blog! :)
wise and true words. guess you're missing the wife huh?
:)
Beautiful.
Sometimes its the simple things, which are Far Complicated in Life ... !!!
Maryam
hmm...
well i don't know how you take it
(my Fastian and Epay Senior ;) ) but my view is that after getting married the biggest problem is losing freedom you have as a single person.
when ever i hear about any of my friends getting married or planning to do in near future i always think and even sometimes say ,"What the heck you are willing to sacrifice your freedom at such early age?" and also the goals we set to achieve i feel will face serious a set back with the addition of a huge responsibility like getting married.
the only constant is change. the world changes. the persons change. since time is linear and uni-directional, nothing is constant except the physical constants on which this changing universe is based in the very first place ... I think it is impossible for two partners to stay the same ... why should we curb change? We change ourselves from birth to death. Our thinking evolves, changes and fights with stagnant constant. I think partners should change following the natural order but change for good and not for worse!
thanks for sharing the secret UTP;)
Yah, its true :)
Or maybe both should try to grow with each other. Evolve, Grow but with each other :)
Easier said than done, I think :$
PERFECT!
wise...but boring don't you think.. what will I do if I do not have those little tiffs to occupy me every day :) and change can be good too!
UTP, I've been missing MayG for a while. Where is she, how's she doing?
Please give her my love.
@sidhusaaheb - I would have to agree to that...and I think that is natural. We have to fight it cos relationships cannot be measured with money...
@rayshma - thanks and good to see people still coming to read...
@mona - absolutely!!!
@hina - so is life...
@maryam - we make it complex for ourselves...
@faisal - its a matter of perception...if you compare with bachelorhood you will think that you are bound...but if you look from my side...i am much more free than ever before...
and anyway, we should question that are we really free? can we ever be?
@theRuefulTone - that point is taken and yes the partners will change also...but if those changes are controlled or directed in a way that the relationship remains the same....that is what I wanted to depict from the verse in the post...
@anIllusion - your most welcome...although that is not the only one...there are many more...
@aneesh - welcome...
@asma - exactly...the point...and yes...it is easier said that done...
@sara - well thanks...
@preethi - change will be there...the relationship should stay the same...
@dipali - she has gone home for vacations....should be back soon...you could drop her an email...
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